During the years I've been on Xanga and youtube, I've read countless comments and blogs describing the "out-there" Christians as Bible thumping, fire and sulfur, burn in hell types of people who don't take into consideration the feelings of the people around them. One of the most seen comments is that "those Bible thumpers are telilng me that I'm a bad person, which I'm not, and that I will go to hell if I don't repent of my sins, of which I have none." And that's all they get out of what evangelists are trying to tell them. However, if you've ever bothered to listen to those evangelists, their message has way more than what people choose to hear.
First off, the "Bible thumpers" quote from the Bible all the time because, well, without it, Christians would not know the full account of the fall and save of humanity. If you were a policeman, would you want to be out in the field not knowing what citations to give out? Or a lawyer in the courtroom not knowing the various Supreme Court cases that help your case?
Secondly, evangelists shout, yell, and "make a scene" because a person's soul is not something to take lightly. They try to attract as much attention through the passion in their voices to reach as many ears as possible so that people may hear the truth about Jesus Christ and His saving grace. They may repeat John Edwards' "Sinners in the hands of an angry God," or they might reiterate 1 John's very basic guidelines to fellowship with the Lord Jesus Christ, but it's all the same thing. You are a sinner, I am a sinner, we must repent of our sins and strive to live a godly life to escape from righteous judgement being poured out upon us.
Third, (at least) some Christians continue to pursue others with the message of Christ because of the same reason as number 2, a person's soul after this life will go to either heaven or hell for eternity. This is exactly the same situation as a person with cancer. His family hounds him to get medication and chemotherapy to save him from death, but the choice is his. The father, as the man of the house, has poured his love and strength into the family, and they wish to reciprocate by helping him escape death. Will they stop at a "no thanks (aka I want to die)," or will they keep pressing him to get well from his sickness? I'm pretty sure that the family would continue to approach him until the end.
Remember, evangelists try to live by the Bible and they want you to be with them in heaven, and they will go to many lengths to get you there, but the choice is yours. So the next time a Christian talks to you about Christ, please take into consideration the fact that he/she wishes you the best lot in the next life.